139. Activating Your Feminine Power Through Pleasure Not Pressure with Jenn Wodtke
In this bold and transformative episode, Carla sits down with Jenn Wodtke, an orgasm and pleasure coach, to explore how pleasure is a profound pathway to healing, self-worth, and abundance. Jenn vulnerably shares how she escaped the “perfect” life that felt suffocating and discovered her purpose through sexuality coaching. Together, they uncover how embracing pleasure dissolves money blocks and unlocks a more empowered, abundant life.
What You’ll Learn:
The unexpected connection between pleasure, self-worth, and financial freedom
How embracing your sexuality can dismantle money blocks
The life-changing power of “touchless orgasm” and womb healing
Strategies for building a business in taboos and owning your divine feminine power
Releasing the pressure to perform and stepping into radical pleasure-based empowerment
Whether you feel stuck in perfection, overwhelm, or financial struggle—this episode invites you to reclaim your power, your joy, and your wealth through the healing power of pleasure.
CONNECT WITH JENN:
Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennwodtke/
Buy her Book - Touchless Orgasm: https://jennwodtkecourses.mykajabi.com/offers/VLJceYdD/checkout
Download FREE guide - 3 Keys to Touchless Orgasm: https://jennwodtke.com/3keysto/
Book a free call with Jenn: https://calendly.com/jenn-jennwodtke/30min
The Year of the Seductive Woman (Jenn’s YouTube Series): https://www.youtube.com/jennwodtke
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Watch the full episode below:
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welcome back to the Money Mindset Hub podcast.
I'm your host, Carla Townsend, a money mindset and success coach who helps purpose-driven women, dissolve their money blocks so they can create a life and business that they never want to escape.
Today I have Jenn Wodtke, who is an orgasm and pleasure coach.
Something a little bit different for our listeners here. So she believes that when you experience your orgasms and pleasure to the fullest, you move into the divine and become fully empowered in all areas of your life, including your wealth and abundance. So no matter where you are on your pleasure journey, she can help you to tap deeper into your pleasure, your power and divinity. Welcome, Jenn.
Thank you so much for having me.
I am so excited to get into this. So let's just dive straight in. Jen. wanna take everyone back to a time that I read about when you felt like you were sort of standing at this crossroads in your life where everything looked incredible on the surface.
You had the teaching job, you had the perfect partner, everything looked great, but underneath you felt like you were cage and restricted. Now I know so many people listening are going to be feeling those exact same emotions, like, well, everything's good, everything's working, but I feel like I'm lost. So can you tell us about that time back in 2006 and how that led you to finding your purpose?
Yeah, it was a really. Dark time. And it was awful. Like my first thought in the morning was, I hate my life, you know? And then I would go teach grade three.
And then my last thought at the end of the day was, I hate my life. And it was. It wasn't just that, you know, sometimes off the cuff we're like, oh, I hate my life, I hate people. It was a really deep in my soul, just like I wanted to like vomit everything up and I kind of went, you know what? It's more dangerous for me to stay here than it is to leap into the unknown because I could feel my soul starting to die.
Like, and it was really, really awful. And I kind of looked back at. What I thought were my deepest desires at the time, and I wanted to work in film, so I, you know, sold my house, packed everything up, moved. Not a cross country, but far enough that my parents were super upset with me and got into the film industry and I found being away from my family and away from sort of these ideas that people had, people that were close to me, had about who I was and what I wanted and what I should be.
That's when things started to blossom and I started to explore my sexuality in various ways, explore how I wanted to be in relationship, and it's just been an ongoing, amazing journey from there. And as I kind of got into my pleasure, I was like, there's more here. It was just this like itch. I was like, there's more about pleasure here.
There's more about sexuality. There's. More that I don't know that I know can lead me deeper into who I am. And I sort of just followed that. And finally, in 2022, finally took the leap and got coaching training just 'cause I was like, this is exactly what I'm supposed to be doing with my life at this point.
So,
Wow. I love that. And what was that pull then to go into orgasm and pleasure? Like where did you find that? Was that just throughout, you know, finding what your purpose was, what felt good to you, what you were interested in? You just decided like, this is it. This is, this is the thing.
I knew I wanted to work in sexuality and within, I mean, I sort of niched all over the place within, you know, being a sex coach. But sort of the more I started working with clients and the more I continued to do my own self-development work, I sort of started to really feel that pleasure was not only something that.
I wanted to experience more deeply for myself, but I realized it was also a tool. And that's what I found really fascinating. That intersection of, you know, using pleasure to get other things that I want in my life and pleasure, in my opinion, is of course, something that we should do for pleasure's sake.
Like it is its own, just a fun journey, but it can be both. And I find when we merge those, that's where a lot of magic can happen.
Yeah. And do you know what? When I. Saw to what you did, and we first came across each other. That's when I thought too, I, I bet you she's a romantic, you're a money archetype. And then you did the quiz and I was like, yep. Nailed it.
Yep.
The romantic for everyone listening is literally the pleasure seeker. So it wasn't surprising that you were a tie, you were actually a tie between the romantic and the celebrity, which is the big shot
one, wanting to be seen.
And then you went to work in films and things so that it was literally like that archetype quiz just. Put you like, nailed it, nailed your
money personality perfectly. For those qui who haven't listened and haven't done the quiz yet, go to money mindset hub.com/quiz because it literally is telling you what you probably already know about yourself and definitely things that you can help work on. How did you actually finally build that courage to follow your passion instead of just living out the predictable life that was going well, but what made you actually go 2022? I'm done. Other than, yeah, moving away how did you build that courage?
I think looking back, I had, I had some unconscious fears that I, I only sort of just identified recently, like since I took that coaching training. But I had just, it, it was a really almost like a slow burn where I was like, I didn't wanna work in film anymore. I mean, I have a lot of great memories of film and I have a certain nostalgia for, for that industry and the job that I did in it.
But it wasn't creative and it wasn't fulfilling, and you're on someone else's schedule. And I had been sticking my toe in and out of becoming a sex coach and doing something in the sexuality realm for probably a full decade. And I just, I almost just snapped and went, I have to do this. Like, I can't sit here and not be satisfied in my life if I'm not gonna put my money where my mouth is and take the step.
And I just, I, I just did it. I was like, it's time no fucking around anymore. Like, let's do this.
Feel the fear, do it anyway. It actually
reminded me of an Oprah saying, she said, if not now, then when, and it's so
true. You just gotta rip that bandaid off and just jump right in. I read that on your journey there was a truth that came to you and I loved this truth, so I have to repeat it. You said that our pleasure is our power. You realize then how disempowered you'd been for most of your life. Can you explain what you mean by that? I suppose in terms of like your sexuality and what you're doing now for those listening who may actually feel disempowered but maybe don't know it, how would they recognize that I.
This is such a huge question. And it felt like such a huge truth to me. For me, when I zoom out and I look at the world, and especially at women and how we've been conditioned and the things that we've been taught around our sexuality, it's been so. Controlled for millennia, right? Like it wasn't that long ago where if you had a child at a wedlock, for example, you were doomed to a life of abject poverty and shunning. And we've lost goddess worship like. Millennia ago, we used to worship the female figure as divine. We used to acknowledge goddesses. That's been lost, and I just feel when we lose all of that, we can't experience our own bodies and our own orgasm. To the fullest potential. So many women, I hear so many times, and myself included, I imagine that you've probably had a similar experience at points in your life as well, where you're being sexual and you're like, oh my God, is he or she worried that my boobs are too small, that fat roll, da, da, da.
All of those things. And how can we be empowered, where we're worried about how we look instead of what we feel? You know what I mean? Like there's this. Sanitizing of our sexuality that takes us out of enjoying it and, and I think in my opinion, you can't be disempowered in one area of your life and not have it bleed over into everything else.
But I find the inverse is also true. Like when you find what is empowering for you and for me that came through my pleasure and my orgasm. I started to see that power like blossom through all areas of my life. And. I think how to recognize it. My experience, what I've seen with some clients as well is there is this, especially with women, this like, everything's fine, everything's good enough.
Who am I to complain? Because again, it goes back to as women, we're conditioned so much to take care of our children, our partners, our communities, everybody else before ourselves. And it just becomes, it takes over and next thing you know, you've. Lost power across so many areas of your life.
Yeah, I a hundred percent. It definitely does. And when you were talking too, I realized that know this with your sexuality and that receiving, let's just say in an intimate moment too. Part of receiving money is to do with also just receiving pleasure is being able to receive in all areas
of your life. So if you're struggling with this, if you're struggling to receive. an intimate moment, you will probably also find that you will struggle to receive things such as a compliment from someone or
money from a client because there will always be some form of self-sabotage because this feeling of
not worthy comes up.
Yes.
So it it definitely, I think sexuality and money go hand in hand.
Yeah, totally. Totally. And I, many times I've been in that position getting pleasured and I'm like, oh my God, am I taking too long? He doesn't really like this. He's and. Yeah, that is, I think, really echoes my experience. I'm not a money expert, but my experience about money, like do I deserve this? Did I get this money for nothing?
Did I work hard enough for it? Um, should be low or free so everybody can access them. Right? It's just becomes this self-fulfilling loop, I think.
Oh, a hundred percent. It definitely does. And so your book is literally called Touchless Orgasm. Be your Own Source for Pleasure and Power. Can you explain what that means? What does it mean? Touchless orgasm?
So touchless orgasm. One of the first things I wanna dispel about the title is you don't have to work toward orgasm. If that's doesn't work for you, I sometimes feel like I worry that I am putting out another I. I don't want women to, to hear touchless orgasm and go, oh my God, like this is something else I need to do in bed.
It's intended to be really a paradigm shift in how we experience pleasure. So many of us look to our partners or toys to create. Pleasure inside of our bodies, but with touchless orgasm, we sort of put all of that aside just for the practice.
I have also taught myself and grown the capacity to be able to, you know, I can do it right now. If I'm just sitting here, close my eyes, focus and get in touch and be like, oh, I feel that. I feel that pleasure. I feel that twinge of aliveness and the wisdom that's there. And with the touchless orgasm method, you can sort of lash onto that pleasure and begin to circulate it throughout your entire body without touching yourself.
Up to and including the port of point of orgasm if you want to take it to the nth degree. And I find it translates, it pops up with me on, on odd times sometimes, like I'm not necessarily doing something sexual, but if it's something that I'm really interested in or passionate about, I'll be like, Ooh, that feels good.
Like I'm on the right path. I should keep going here. I should keep, I should keep doing whatever I'm doing. Maybe it's like working on a book or podcast or whatever. So, yeah.
Yeah. Well look, I think it's really interesting too because even with the womb, the connection between your womb and your manifestation. Powers. I mean, as woo as that might sound. But the deeper you go, the more that you'll realize they're actually connected. For a woman, I find that this too, just your sexuality, if you do have wounds, right, from whatever it might be, trauma, generational trauma, either, it can be so many different things, but if you have that, you're not able to fully open up to the manifestations that it is that you're trying to call in.
It doesn't matter what area of life. So there is a connection there, which I find. Really interesting. And womb healing is a literal thing.
Yes.
you had any experience with that?
Yes. Yeah, I was at, an optional in-person retreat as part of my coaching training, and we had a womb healing session. Longer have a physical womb. I had a hysterectomy a few years ago, but that doesn't matter. Who's listening who might be in the same situation, your womb is not necessarily the physical organ, it's the energy of it.
And I didn't really expect anything to come up because I was like, Halloween, eh. And you know, I was guided through the practice and I just got this really clear message that like, you're beautiful. We're still here. Like you can still birth and create whatever you want in the world. Like we're not just for children and we haven't left you.
You made the right decision for you to have this womb. Actually removed and I just felt this amazing surge of love that was coming. I mean, it was coming from within me, but it also felt like it was this deeper, richer external source from somewhere that was like, we got you. You still have this creative energy and this power to create.
So it was an amazing. An amazing experience.
Yeah, I know one of my, clients she has done womb healings for women that are actually going through the IVF donor egg journey, and it's so incredibly transformational that, but yeah, it truly is. all connected. Everything is energy. It is all connected, but it's wild.
I'm gonna speak then from my own experience because I know that so many women are gonna relate, but I feel like this connection to sexuality, my own sexuality, and many women listening, it's sort of like a work in progress, right? I truly believe that this maybe disconnection with sexuality sort of stemmed from my teenage years. And it was through, you know, body insecurity. It was witnessing women being demonized if they dressed a certain way.
So I've worked really hard on a lot of that. But what would you say to the woman who's still really holding back and not fully expressing her sexuality and her needs even to her partner, maybe because of past, I suppose, mental, physical blocks that she might be experiencing. How does she even begin to open up and express herself the way that she wants to?
I think one of the first keys is to recognize that we all have a solo sexuality. Like our sexuality exists without any partners around, so I always encourage people to recognize that how they are with a partner like you co-create a sexuality together, but you both also retain your own sexuality.
And that's where I would encourage women to start.
And within that, the very first thing is. You have to find and create safety. So a lot of women can't express sexually or perhaps don't have orgasms or whatever their specific case might be because this culture that we live in can really harshly punish women if they step outside of accepted sexual rules and boundaries, right?
So the first thing is for her to create. A space, a ritual for herself where she can create pleasure, she begins to do that within her own boundaries so that she doesn't push past what feels safe.
For herself. 'cause we first need to create these new neural pathways and in our body as well, that it's okay to be sexual. I'm not gonna be punished, I'm not gonna be harmed, I'm not gonna be hurt. So it's baby steps to. Create that safety and then to do that over and over and over again.
So you're creating a new way of being that your body starts to go, okay, it's safe to be sexual, this is okay. And then you can start expanding that out to include your partner to include different types of orgasmic experiences or creating pleasure or whatever she specifically wants in her life. But it's that safety is the is absolutely key.
Nobody's gonna have mind blowing orgasms if they don't feel safe to do that.
Yeah. Yeah. God, that safety piece is just linked everywhere,
whether it
be
through your sexuality, whether it be through money, wealth, success, it's the safety piece. It's just building your
nervous system
to be one that can hold it.
Yeah.
Yeah. It's simple and we hear it again in different areas because it's true. It's that whole thriving versus surviving mentality, right? Or ability. And until we can get outta survival mode, we're not gonna thrive in our pleasure.
Yeah, a hundred percent.
Yeah.
how did you go then, starting your business and being in this space? You know, it could be quite triggering for maybe some women listening will be like, what? I don't wanna go there. You know, sexuality is this taboo thing because it, it is, right? Just like money, it's taboo. But how did you go starting your business and gaining traction and people are sort of understanding your message. Was it challenging at first?
I feel like I'm still in the beginning faces and it still feels challenging at times. Because a lot of women. Might not quite feel comfortable having some of these conversations, or I think. My experience way back when I first sort of started looking at sex coaches and what they were teaching, I was like, ah, that's not true.
Ah, what do you mean I'm repressed, or I can't remember what the words were. One specific coach who's actually very, very well known, I was like, what do you mean? What do you mean? I'm lacking or I'm numb. I'm like, that's not true. That's not true. So I had those reactions myself, and then I kind of just went.
I'm just looking at someone's website, like if it's not for me, if this person isn't for me, like I'm just gonna keep my search open and look at other people. And finally, I sort of landed on a few people who were saying things that resonated. And that was a way in for me. And again, for me it was just also this recognition of like, I don't wanna stay where I am and.
You have to go through a certain period of discomfort if you want to see changes in your life, right? You don't experience all the amazing things if you stay small and stay scared,
So what are some of those money blocks that you experienced? I like to refer to them as money myths, because truly they're not true. So what are some of those that you experienced that you've had to debunk and overcome?
I think this is a common one. I heard my parents say over and over again, money doesn't grow on trees. Right? And again, I never consciously decided to work with my money mindset or money blocks. Like it came up when I was doing other sexuality and pleasure based practices. But that was a big one for me, and it just.
It was like a light switch, right? And I went, that's not true. Like money of course, obviously doesn't grow on trees, but what's actually true is that there is an infinite amount of money in the world, infinite. So if I can learn how to open up and receive and sort of get myself into the stream, money is going to come to me and abundance is going to come to me.
Yeah. I love that and I definitely heard that a lot too and you're right.
There is truly infinite possibilities. There's infinite amount of money. There's however many trillion dollars being circulated at all times. But it's so interesting how they continue to come up and it doesn't really matter what stage of business you're at. So whether you're listening and you're just thinking about starting, whether you're in the early stages or whether you're making seven figures already, I can tell you now that they're still going to come up no matter what.
But I love that it came up as you were doing your own, I suppose, evolution through pleasure. So what was it that started to come up where you realized, oh, I need to work on my money mindset here. There's money blocks that are coming up. These beliefs aren't real.
yeah, so the past couple years for me, money has really started to come to the forefront. Like I said, I used to work in film and with all the strikes of 2023, my last actual paying film job was at the end of 2022. And I wasn't quite ready to go into coaching yet, but I was like, oh, I guess it's time.
And so I haven't worked a regular job. For two year, over two years now. And not having that steady income really sort of was the catalyst to me looking at like, okay, what is my money situation? What am I going to do now that I don't have this steady income? And am I self sabotaging? Like I got myself here somehow through my actions and my beliefs, like I got myself here.
I just have this feeling like if I don't change my thinking about money and abundance, I'm going to be stuck here and I don't wanna be stuck here. So it was kind of for me, just an organic, like questioning about what had been sort of unconsciously planted in me about my beliefs around money and abundance and self-worth was a big piece of that too.
Yeah. And what do you think the link is then between your self-worth, your sexuality, and even with money?
I suppose it all ties in
It all ties in for sure. I had a coaching session couple years ago now, I guess. With a peer who was in my program and we were supposed to be working with a challenging emotion, but at that period of time, I was like, I don't have any challenging emotions. Like, I feel joyful every day. This is amazing.
So we worked with Joy and she was so skilled and she just kept digging and she asked the right questions and she's like, I think there's more here, Jen. I think there's more here. And finally she said, okay, you said that you're feeling so much joy that you can't access fear. So what's behind that?
I said, well, I think I didn't let myself feel joy before. She's like, well, why didn't you let yourself feel joy? What popped out in my mouth without any restriction was, I don't think I was ever worthy of it, blew my mind. I always presented throughout my whole life as being confident and having high self-esteem, and my ego really wanted to believe that that was true.
So when I said, oh, I don't think I've ever been worthy of it, and it was just like, oh my God, that is there. And I walled it so deep behind being this like self-confident sexual liberal woman that I didn't even know it was there.
And so I sat there as soon as I said that and I went, oh my God, that's absolutely true. And it was like my life flashed before my eyes and it was like all the opportunities I turned down, all of the things I didn't. Do all of the things I didn't say because I felt I couldn't take up space and I couldn't be big and I couldn't say my opinion because I was fearful of what would come back at me.
And I think that moment is when I started to really change how I thought about myself very broadly and money and abundance and sex and pleasure and all of it. It was like I'm worthy of all of it. And that was a huge shift. I'm like, I'm worthy of, I'm like. I'm worthy of being rich. I'm worthy of having amazing partnership.
I'm worthy of life changing orgasms. I'm worthy of a deep spirituality. I'm worthy of connection. I'm worthy of all of it.
Wow. That's super interesting that you said that though, because you were covering it and you were hiding it through being so confident, but that's just your shadow being overly expressed. So to hide what was going on under the surface.
'cause it's usually either one way or the other. It's either overly expressed or it's overly suppressed, it's really interesting that that made you realize like, oh, that's why you're just kind of making up for the lack of self-worth in the overconfidence. That's really interesting.
I think a lot of people will resonate with that too. Like where are you overly expressing parts of yourself? Because there is something under the surface that you really need to love on and just let it be to move on. That's so interesting. That's really, really interesting. What is your definition of success?
I mean this a great question 'cause I've been thinking a lot about that. So if I'm being totally honest and authentic, I am at my lowest point financially. But I'm also so abundant in other ways, and that has been a really, really huge lesson. And despite not having a lot in the bank, I feel so surrounded by love.
I am happy every day, and i'm able to choose that. That feels like success to me, that I can live in happiness and joy every day, and I can live with a kind, empathetic heart to everyone around me.
Mm. Mm. I love that and thank you for that vulnerability. I do think that, you know, now for many business owners is something that a lot of people aren't talking about, but it has been really challenging, and it doesn't seem to matter what industry you're in. There are many people going through it, but that's just part of business, right?
Entrepreneurship. It sometimes can be like that until you find that sustainability and that consistency. But I feel like when you have an abundant mindset like you do, I can tell that you're optimistic.
You're doing what you can. You're gonna move the needle. It's all gonna work back out. It's fine. It's kind of like the pendulum will swim back in your favor for sure. It's just a matter of time. When you have that mentality and abundant mindset like that, of course it's gonna work out. It's always gonna work out.
And I always say to everyone though. Money is just a byproduct of living a life in alignment, and you seem so aligned and on purpose. So of course it's going to flow back into you.
Yeah. And it has been really, really eye-opening. And I'm so grateful that even, you know, right now in this period, I have so many people who have just supported me and, a few close friends have services that I need. Gifted me those just little things from here and there. Like somebody buys me a drink at the bar, right? Like a friend sends me a gift card or whatever, like, and just recognizing that abundance also is coming from who I am and what I have put out in the world my whole life.
So it feels like I'm. Evolving into this more like tangible money, wealth. The next phase is that like I have so much gratitude for the non-material abundance that I am enjoying, that it's just like I'm so, I can't wait for the next piece. I know it's gonna come and I'm gonna be grateful for that as well.
Do you know what I mean?
Yes, a hundred percent I do, and I think this is kind of like the missing piece that people forget about when you are, for anyone listening who is in a state too, where they feel like, oh, you know, I'm doing all the things, but the money's just not stacking in the bank right now.
The first thing you need to do is honestly, one. Audit, your behaviors, your habits, your feelings, your emotions around money and how are you being with money? But then also too, be really grateful for non-monetary things and any sort of form of abundance, because like you said, you know, you hit the nail on the head.
Abundance comes in so many different forms. Abundance could just be love. It could be gratitude, it could be a gift from a total stranger. It could be anything. Look around you right now and look at everything that you are grateful for in your life, what you have, do you have a.
A home? Do you have a roof over your head? Do you have food on the table every day? Do you have heating to keep you warm in winter and cooling for summer? Do you have friends and family who love and who love you and support you undeniably then that is all abundance. And sometimes where I feel like people get lost is they think abundance is just money, but it's not.
It really isn't. And when you're trying to chase the money, it's the first thing that will repel the money. It's trying to live a life of abundance. Yes, we need it. It's definitely a necessary tool. We need money to live to provide everything that we need, right? But there are always ways that you could be of service, so when you opt into service, you will receive monetarily and sometimes you have to do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do. And honestly, I always say like, wealth and being rich, it's not so much to do with what's in your bank account, it's actually how you feel. It's how you experience life. And the thing is, you're not gonna get to your end of your day and be like, God, I'm so glad I have so much money in my bank account.
You're gonna get to the end of the day and be like, how was my experience of life? And of course, money is a resource to be able to get you to experience more of what it is that you want and be more generous and provide more and maybe build a legacy, but it's not the experience of life itself. So I love that you're finding that lesson too.
And I think there are so many lessons in moments where you feel like that, you know, when you've really gotta dig deep, where you've really gotta be aligned and and cut everything that isn't. Suiting you. It's not helping you. It's not pushing you more towards the vision that it is that you have for yourself and for your business too.
The more that you strive towards that and just building something you are so grateful for, like I always say to clients is to build something to remember. That's what you're here for. You're here to build something to remember. You're not just doing this because it's just something to do, and you think it's gonna bring in the funds.
You're doing it because it was your purpose and your purpose work sometimes has those moments where it's really challenging, but any success story, like if you look at the greats, like the top 1%, right? They all had moments where they had to build it back up. Maybe, I won't say all, but most had moments where they either were totally bankrupt, they lost everything.
They really had to dig deep and they sort of had this coming back from the ashes sort of story. Not everyone, not to stereotype, not everyone. You don't need that to be successful obviously, but it is a thing that goes to show you that success just isn't this straight linear path.
It has bends. Sometimes you go backwards but I always think that the ones who make it, the ones that truly build what it is they set out to build are the ones that have complete responsibility for their own mindset, their own actions, their behaviors, but they never stop cultivating abundance internally and trusting that it's going to come and surrendering and then it always does come externally.
Yeah. I love that you said the word surrendering. Like I think are alive in sexuality as well as money, like it's a struggle to surrender sexually 'cause you need to, like, that feels so vulnerable. But we need to do it in sex and we need to do it in money, I think to get what we really want and to like, allow ourselves to receive, like we were, you know, just saying earlier with, uh, receiving pleasure.
Hmm, a hundred percent. Okay. This is something I love to ask what's a book that has deeply impacted your life?
I can't remember the author. Feminine Genius, and it was a really, really amazing journey through recognizing that female ways of knowing and understanding the world. Are just as valuable as, you know, the stereotypical male ones of like, logic and action and organization, like connecting with yourself, your body, your inner wisdom as a woman was mind blowing to me.
I was like. I bought into this myth that women's intuition is like meaningless. It's irrational, and it's so superficial. And I found after reading that book, I was like, oh my God, that it, it positions feminine wisdom as this amazing superpower that we have, and that really helped lead me down the path of recognizing that our pleasure is linked to this power because it's just part of being in a female body and recognizing that how women are and what women know is valid and it's real. And highly, highly recommend that Reid, we'll have to find the author, but blew my mind.
yeah I think it's so powerful when women particularly start to reclaim their feminine energy rather than living in such a masculine world.
And, as you'll know, we need both, right? We have masculine and we have feminine energy, but I think that we lose a lot of it, you know, like what you're saying. I think we lose so much of that in this society because it is such a masculine driven society. Like the 40 hour work week was created by men for men and look, this day and age, it's totally different. It's changed and the way the world is is changed. And you know, many families have to be two income families now. So the whole world is just totally different. But it is really interesting and I think just really eye-opening when women start to realize more of their feminine power and they start to lean back into that.
Especially, you know, I know for me, even becoming a mom, I have three kids I've found. I was so in my masculine, like I worked in corporate, I was a manager from the age of 23, so I had to be in my masculine and many of the people I worked around were men in those roles until I started to meet some women, but many also weren't moms, so they didn't have to really step into their feminine to be the nurturer for dependent children. So again, it was so different. I was just sort of in this world of masculinity and it wasn't until I started my own business that I needed to begin to unlearn that.
And I think that again, all ties into that surrendering piece and. I think everything has improved when I started to realize that. So yeah, I'll definitely find who wrote that book and find a link to that book and have a read, because, yeah, I think it's just so eyeopening and transforming for women to really just reclaim that.
And your intuition is key. It is just key. It leads you exactly to where you're meant to go.
Thank you so much for coming on today, Jen. I've absolutely loved it and I know that everyone listening, it's really going to make them remember that they've gotta trust their intuition, listen to their body, and of course, never forget that their pleasure equals their power. So you can connect with Jen on Instagram.
On YouTube. Also grab her book The TouchLess Orgasm, and she's given us a free guide, which is called Three Keys to Touchless Orgasm, as well as a link to book a free 30 minute call with her. All of the links are in the show notes to connect with. Jen. Thank you so much. I've absolutely loved this, and I will catch you in the next episode.
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