6. Your success is inevitable once you master this.
In this episode we talk all things;
Ignore the rules and the best practices.
Be a badass and negative engineer your success in line with you and where you are heading.
The strategy most people and business coaches start with, but it leaves you confused and cloudy.
Start with this and your success will always be inevitable.
How to gain complete clarity and alignment.
My personal experience from money coaching and why I started from scratch now.
Confused about your purpose or passion? Start with this.
You have everything you need to succeed, but this will keep you stuck and staying small.
How to work out what business model would work for you.
How to gain insight into what every aspect of your abundant life would look like and why.
The most transformative tool to use to gain intuitive insight into your soul.
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Welcome to the money mindset hub podcast. I'm your host, Carla Townsend, and money mindset and success coach on a mission to normalize feminine wealth through empowering the minds of fierce females in business, you're in the right place, if you are a female who wants to become a vibrational match to attract more wealth, freedom and abundance, but you just keep getting stuck, or there's something amiss. There's something blocking you from attracting that desired level of success, I'm reaching your highest potential. So I'll be talking all things money mindset, energetics of money manifestation law of attraction, CEO mindset, and much, much more. Because the world needs more kind hearted women like you with deep pockets. So let's get started. Hello, lovely, and welcome back to another episode. So this one's going to be a little bit different. I'm just going to riff on a topic that just came through, I had a download before. And I thought, You know what, this is really where everything should start. So there is no way that you will not succeed in business and life if you just mastered this one thing. And that my idea is to understand who the wealthy woman is inside you, who is that woman you are becoming? Now let me just like pause and reframe there for a second. Because there's lots and lots of different advice. And I totally understand what it's like when you start because you have no idea whether you're coming or going or whether you're passionate about this or that or maybe you have just absolutely no idea. You know, you want a business, you know, you want to be able to have that vehicle that can create the financial freedom, the time freedom, the life of your dreams. And more often than not that comes from having your own business. Yes, but where do you start? Most of the time people say, alright, well, you know, what are you passionate about? It's really hard if you don't know what you're passionate about. I have no idea, no idea where to start. And then people often let's jump into well, who's your client? Who's your ideal client? Who she? What does she do? Where does she hang out? How old is she? And all that sort of thing. So we often start with diving straight into, who are they? What do they want? How do you serve them, and it's all about your client. Now, don't get me wrong, I 100% agree with the fact that if you're trying to talk to everybody, you're talking to nobody, and you do you need to niche, you know, niching down is definitely going to help you reach your audience better. Grow your reach, grow your business, yada, yada. So starting with that is really difficult. So I did that, too. Obviously, I started the exact same path. You know, I started with oh, you know, I think I'm passionate about, you know, x y Zed. Like, you know, managing money was where I sort of started like, it was more than money coaching specifically side of it, right, which I thought, Okay, well, maybe that's sort of where I start. And the reason why I figured that out was you know, I had the conversations with friends and family people that I trust saying, you know, what do you come to me for? Or when you think of me, what do you think that? That my, my, what am I good at? You know, like, what am I strengths and all that sort of thing. So then it kind of got me on? All right. Well, yeah, most people do come to me for specifically for either life advice, or just someone to, you know, explain what's going on in their life. Or it's about how do you manage money and how do you do all that? So the financial side of things. So I started with that, and then I dove straight into Okay, well, who's my client? What does she do? Everything that I mentioned before, it just sort of went down the tunnel of like, alright, well, how am I supposed to now turn that into, you know, speaking to this woman or, and that honestly was such an overwhelming process. And it literally led me to where I am now. So let's just go back that was like two years ago, when I was on maternity leave with my son. I thought you know what, I'm gonna start a business because you know, that's what you do when you're on maternity leave with two kids. But I feel like every time you have a child you reborn I know you mamas out there are going to totally understand that. And let me tell you, I've been reborn three times after age of my children. You know, last year, I just saw I'm so unaligned like where I'm heading is not where I pictured myself going. And I felt so much resistance, so much resistance in sharing my message so much resistance in creating even creating content alone.
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And all the things I just didn't feel that passion. You know, I didn't feel that drive. I didn't feel like what I was doing was super fulfilling. Now don't get me wrong when I was working with a beautiful women and men because they often had their partners in the call And we're going through the eight week program that I created. That was amazing. It honestly, that hands down was the biggest lesson I've ever had in business to date so far, because full transparency, I'm starting all again, saying their mindset shifts and them saying, Oh, my God, you've just you've changed my life is amazing. But I just felt unaligned so No, five minutes into this podcast I'm getting to it. Here is the one thing that you must master. And once you master this, your success is inevitable, will always be inevitable. And that one thing is not focusing on anybody else, not worrying about, you know, what's your passion? What's your hobby? Who's your ICA? Who's your client? Who are you speaking to? None of that, nada? Don't even worry about that. Start with who are you? Who are you becoming? Who do you desire to be, who is your inner wealthy woman, your highest self, you might hear it referred to, as you know, your highest self that that incredibly successful, vibrant, confident woman that you want to become? Who is she? Now, let me go into further might be worth I often say to people when I'm talking to them, and I just start, you know, brain dumping intuitively onto them that get a pen and paper and start writing this shut down. This is where I want you to start. Because once you mastered this, you will literally master everything else. And it makes it gives you full clarity, it just completely gives you full clarity on what you need to do, and how you need to serve and how you create the content. And where to move, you know, because there's so much noise and it can get so overwhelming. But at the end of the day, your entire business, your entire life all comes down to the experiences that you have you not anyone else, just you, you're going to remember life how you experienced it. So in order to experience that level of success and wealth and abundance, and all the other beautiful things that you're aiming for with your business, you need to know. But how does that serve my highest self? How does that serve this incredible, wealthy woman who's so confident inside of me that I know I'm becoming and I want to step into her more? Ask yourself this. What does she look like? How does she act? How does she dress? How does she show up every day? What habits does she do every single day that drove her closer to being that successful version? How does she show up in the world? What habits does she instill? So when I started to knock this out? Like who is my highest self? Who is she? Who is the woman that I dream of becoming? That if I didn't have any limiting beliefs or any silly stories in my head? Who would she be? What would she do? How would she show up? How do I want to be remembered? Think about that. You know, what legacy Do you want to create? So once you knock out your highest self and who she is, that is where you start, because then that is where you can then develop? Okay, well, if this is the person that I truly believe that I am meant to be Now, I'm not saying be any different, you know, become a totally different person or anything, you are already enough you already have everything you want to be. But we do often keep ourselves small, and we keep ourselves stuck based on what we believe other people will think about us or say about us. So I want you to be brave and be bold and be confident. And to really step into if I didn't give two shits about what anybody thought or what anybody said, or any sort of limitations that I perceive. Who would I be? How would I show up? So you can start to knock that out. Now, I know I got a bit of a tangent. But you know, this is coming from my soul. This is not scripted. So this is just a complete download for me, and I hope you love it. So once you've figured out that who that person is, then I want you to ask yourself, well, what sort of business would serve her? What sort of business model would serve her? Does she work? Two days a week or four days a week? Does she? What sort of roles does she play?
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So what does her dream day look like? What does her workday look like? You know, when does she start? When does she finished? What commitments does she have? How does she prioritize, say self care during those days? Because the thing with having your own business is you get the freedom to choose you get time freedom. So what does your highest self do? What? What does her week look like her day, her month, her year, whatever. That's sort of where you can start. But once you have identified, who is your highest self, then like I said, you work backwards from there. Okay, well, what sort of business would serve her? What does she do? What does she love that don't think about anybody else? Don't think about any sort of validation from anybody else of what you should do, because you will know what it is that you love to do or want to teach. Or think about what sort of what sort of content you consume a lot of, you know, like, is it? Is it to do with business? Is it to do with health? What is it? What do you consume? What do you love to do? So I'd start with that is go from your highest self, and then backpedal from that back backstep? Then work your way backwards, basically, into Okay, well, my highest self, day, week, month, year, what does it look like? What does she prioritize? What does she do? What are her commitments? What does she love? And then what business would serve her? What does her business model look like? How does she work? What habits does she have? All those sorts of things, and then you can start to form your business and from there that will inspire you, and direct you to your niche and to your ideal client, which then obviously, you use to create content and the like from there. But first off, you need to know who you are and who you're becoming. Because like I said, your life is, is your experience. So how successful, abundant wealthy that you feel, is completely from your perception and your experience of life? So you want to know, well, what would actually give me those feelings? And who would I show up as if I knew my success was inevitable? I knew that whatever I wanted to do, I was going to be incredibly successful in what would that be? Anyway, I hope that helped. I hope that just wasn't a huge, long tangent. But like I said, not scripted. I'm literally just like funneling out my thoughts into a recording because I felt inspired to and I really hope that you get something out of it, I'm sure you will. There was a lot of questions in there and a lot of things to think about. So I would recommend just getting a notepad or journal, whatever you like, and maybe going back and listening to those sorts of questions and just jotting down whatever comes to mind. Don't second guess your your thoughts, whatever intuitive downloads, you get whatever little voices you get in your head, once you listen to those things, write it down. Because journaling is honestly one of the most transformative practices that you can do. It is completely cleansing. It cleanses out all your internal thoughts. So the first thing that pops into your mind, that's your truth, that's your inner truth. So once I've, you know, I've just dumped you with all these different questions to think about and your, your higher self to start with, write that all down and read it over and see what truly came up because that's your starting point. Now to help you along, I did actually create a freebie it's called daily practices to ignite your inner wealthy woman, it's on my website, you can go just grab that and it will help you start to dive into your inner wealthy woman. And yeah, from there, what will unfold will unfold so just let it you don't need external validation. You don't need to ask anybody else just see what comes up for you. Because you are the only person who knows the right direction. Thanks for listening to this week's episode. I hope you enjoyed it and if so, please subscribe to the podcast and join our mailing list at money mindset hub.com. Until next time, remember, everything you desire and deserve is just on the other side of your own resistance to take that next step.