8. Why does your income equal your worth?
In this episode we talk all things:
Your business is not a hobby
You don't need your partners approval
Who cares what they might think or say about you and your business
Why can't you crack the code
There are deep rooted beliefs
Money is simply a physical thing to the human eye, so why does it mean so much to me?
Your deep rooted lack of worthiness
The meaning and association you have placed on money
Don't blame the money, it wants to serve you
The one simple reframing technique that will shift your entire mindset towards money
Money facilitates your desires in this way
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Welcome to the money mindset hub podcast. I'm your host Carla Townsend, and money mindset and success coach on a mission to normalize feminine wealth through empowering the minds of fierce females in business, you're in the right place if you are a female who wants to become a vibrational match to attract more wealth, freedom and abundance, but you just keep getting stuck, or there's something amiss. There's something blocking you from attracting that desired level of success and reaching your highest potential. So I'll be talking all things money mindset, energetics of money manifestation law of attraction, CEO mindset, and much, much more. Because the world needs more kind hearted women like you with deep pockets. So let's get started. Hello, lovely. So I'm just going to dive straight into this one, because I just had a little intuitive nudge that said, get on the podcast and start talking about this. So today, I want to talk to you about why it's important to focus on your money mindset, particularly if you are a woman in business, because it's the one biggest area that is blocking you. And everything has a deep rooted call us but you need to figure out those calls and what they are in order for you to reframe, and reprogram and cultivate the amount of abundance that you want. So let's just think about it for a second. Imagine if you could start feeling stuck, overwhelmed, procrastinating in the field of needing to know the best strategy, you finally can build a healthy relationship with money and know what you need to do to move forward. You stop needing external validation from your friends, your family, and especially from your partner trying to prove that your business actually has potential. And it's not just some hobby. Imagine if you no longer feel like every time you take a step forward, you then take two steps back, you finally managed to remove the fear and stress that you have associated with money. And you're finally competent to be able to actually create an income on your own, and abundance with ease rather than the hustle and grind that's constantly portrayed. Imagine if finally you get you stop comparing yourself and your services, your pricing to every other successful woman out there and just feeling like you can't crack the code. You know what's so special about them? How come I just can't do it. You My Love are purpose driven woman who is here to create an impact and reach your potential, as simple as that. But if you ever have any of those thoughts that I just said to you, you have a deep rooted money block that is stopping you from getting there. Now let me talk about what a money block is, for a moment, a money block or a block in any sense of the word is just a subconscious belief or story that you've been programmed with from since you were a child, and it stops you from showing up and being who you are and doing what you want. Because there is a fear of judgment, there is a fear of scarcity, lack, who are you to do this many, many different, you know, hundreds and hundreds of different deep rooted money blocks that do appear, the first step in trying to find what that might be, is to one acknowledge that maybe you don't have the best relationship with money that you might have thought you did. You know, like you need to just pretend that money is another person in your life. Okay. So we have relationships with everyone we come in contact with in our life, to some degree or another. And we think about those relationships. But your relationship towards your money is not something that's ever spoken about. I remember when I first heard this term, like, you know, you've everyone's got a relationship with money, I thought what I mean a relationship with money.
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But it's true. And it's not something that we ever really think about. We don't go deep into it's just you know, or money is just a tool. And that's just what we use, you know, money is something that we have added value to we've we have put a meaning on money, money, if you pick up a note, a coin, it is literally just a physical thing that you're holding that you now use to trade for goods and services. The only reason why means anything is because in our society, we have attached a meaning to this money. Now often, the biggest money block that I see is when we then go even one step further and we attach our worth to that money, that physical thing that we can hold that we trade for goods and services, we attach not just like not just a meaning, but we also attach our worth. You know, I'm only worthy of earning this much. I'm only worthy of charging this much. I'm only worthy worthy of creating this much or having this much or saving this much or spending this much or investing this much and the list goes on and on. So I just want you you're this is going to be a really short sharp episode because I just want to watch you know, most of mine are almost like continue to go on and on, which I could have added a podcast about it. My one takeaway for you today is to think about all the times that money is actually showing up for you in your life. And it has done the opposite of tried to stress you out, tried to make you feel fear, or lack or unworthy. Money doesn't do any of those things. Money is neutral. But it's us that attach a meaning and association and worthiness of ourselves to that money. Okay, it's not good or bad, it's not evil. It's it is. It's not here, to do anything other than serve you in the way that you believe it's there to serve you. So, think about the big scheme of things. Money's never let you down. And I want you to visualize now. So you can shift your perspective, the way that you view money, which is this is this is the whole thing, right? This is the game changer, initially, just to think about how has money shown up for you, in your life in the most positive, abundant, amazing, incredible ways? How has money served you? Now I'm going to give you a few examples, because you might be like, What is she talking about? So off the top of my head, money, feeds my family, money pays for my children to go to daycare and learn money pays for our family home, it paid for all of our trips overseas, it paid for our wedding, it pays for the experiences, you see where I'm going with this money is the reason why we've been able to do have experience and be like money also in is a huge thing for me investing in knowledge, training, learning, all that sort of stuff. Because I'm a never ending learner. It pays for eating out, it pays for so many different things, like so many experiences. So I want you now to think about that. Think about how might How was money actually served you so that you can put it in a different perspective, and you can put it in a more positive light, especially if you're looking at it continually or you find yourself having resistance with looking at it from a place of there's just never enough. I never got enough money. I don't know how to use money. Rich people are greedy. Again, remember, it is your own individual meaning and association that you put on money, money, it isn't any of those things because your perspective, mice perspective, almost next door, we will all have different views on money depending on our life experiences, our limiting beliefs, our stories, our conditioning, and our environment. But you can choose to change and challenge that conditioning that story. You can choose to change and challenge it to something that serves you and this exercise will help you do that. So go ahead, go think of the things write them down. What has money done for you, how has it served you in the most positive, abundant ways and I'd love to know your takeaways. So please, as always, hit me up in the DMS on Instagram, send me a message send me an email, whatever it might be. I really want to know, did this help you? And what did you realize? Alright, I'll catch you in the next episode. Thanks for listening to this week's episode. I hope you enjoyed it and if so, please subscribe to the podcast and join our mailing list at money mindset hub.com. Until next time, remember, everything you desire and deserve is just on the other side of your own resistance. So take that next step.